Relationship...

"There’s this case of starting out as friends, and then falling in love without knowing it. I fell in love this way, and I'm not sure why it is so. I just felt that it's really good being with someone who is like me. A person who likes the same things and someone that I would get along with is the type that I would fall for."

~ Jaejoong, AnAn April 2010 Interview

Real Love is...

Love... it's not just the churning in your stomach or the rapid beating of your heart upon seeing, upon being with someone. It's just not that feeling you get when you want so bad to be with someone; when you forget about everything and just see that one person. 

Real love is an act of the will. It's choosing to be with somebody no matter how bad things get. It's not giving into the temptation of leaving when you think things are going down. It's staying even when you don't get butterflies anymore. It's choosing to stay and to continue to care for a person despite anything and everything. That's what real love is.